Being unable to switch off is one of the most common complaints of people with demanding work, whether employed or running something of their own. The phone is always within reach, and the mind keeps rehearsing tomorrow or replaying today. Without real recovery, people start each day already tired.
Switching off is a skill, and like most skills it gets easier with a routine.
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What keeps you switched on?
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Build a shutdown routine
Choose two or three, and do them in the same order every day:
- Write down what you finished today, however small.
- Write tomorrow’s top three priorities, so your mind does not have to hold them.
- Park unfinished worries on paper, with a time to come back to them.
- Close every work tab and turn off notifications.
- Mark the change: a walk, a change of clothes, a particular piece of music.
Exercise
Agreements with myself
My routine, step by step:
The time after which I will not check work messages:
What I will do if a work thought arrives late at night: